Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Reality

I am still feeling so bogged down by everything this semester! I was talking to my fiance last night and we both feel like it is a chore to be happy! I guess sometimes we just need to break free from reality, but how do you do that? I think lately I have been hiding in media; watching tv, reading blogs, and eating bon bons. I don't think it's helping. I heard this song, and I realized this is what I need, but I don't know how to do it. Anyways, let me know if you have any ideas!!



For me it's a beach bar
Or on a boat underneath the stars
Or with my band up on a stage
For a while everything's okay

For some it's a fast car
Moonshine in a mason jar
And everybody has their way
Somehow to escape

Reality, yeah, sometimes life
Ain't all that it's cracked up to be
So let's take a chance and live this fantasy
'Cause everybody needs to break free from reality

Yeah, some days it's a beast, it's a bummer
We need a rock and roll show in the summer
To let the music take us away
Take our minds to a better place

Where we feel that sense of freedom
Leave our worries behind, we don't need 'em
All we need is a sunny day and an old tailgate
And we'll escape

Reality, yeah, sometimes life
Ain't all that it's cracked up to be
So let's take a chance and live this fantasy
'Cause everybody needs to break free from reality

Everybody raise your hands and voice tonight
Set your soul free, let's take a carpet ride
We'll leave it all behind

Reality, yeah, sometimes life
Ain't all that it's cracked up to be
So let's take a chance and live this fantasy
'Cause everybody needs to break free from reality

Come on everybody, break free
Come on everybody, break free

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Facebook

I think I am sufficiently annoyed with Facebook. Maybe this is just a rant, but I am tired of reading about people's meaningless status updates! I know it is something that I am going to want when I move to the other side of the country and know nobody in the state I am living in (starting in June), but right now I just feel like it is a waste of my time...which I'm sure is true. With this being my last semester, I feel like I have MANY other things that are demanding of my attention, and I should probably be devoted to that! 988 friends is too much...time to start unfriending....

Friday, February 17, 2012

Media Blast

This week I have been noticing an explosion of media use in my life. I don't know why I have been watching a lot more TV, reading a lot more articles on the web, and searching. I think part of it is that I feel like I am doing a lot of school work, and that is the only thing I think of when thinking about relaxing. I don't think that watching TV necessarily relaxes me though!

I was thinking about what forms of media could be more relaxing to me, and I thought about how I haven't read a book in quite a while, other than my scriptures.

SO, I am on for the hunt for a good book! I want to read something that will enlighten my mind, but something that is a story. Any good ideas?

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Another Favorite book....







When I was writing last night, I totally failed to mention a book that I immediately fell in love with. I was writing a paper about it this morning and wanted to share it.


The book is called "the Alchemist"




One theme found in this book (similar to Harry Potter and the Boggarts) is the perception/attitude of what you are going through. The main character in the book, Santiago, is a shepherd in Spain who has recurring dreams (like mentioned in the article), and has them translated by a gypsy. She says that his dreams are telling him to travel to Egypt to the pyramids. The next day, he meets a man named Melchizedek, who is a king, and who also tells him that it is his “personal legend” to travel to the pyramids. He sells his entire flock of sheep and pays 10% to Melchizedek, and who also gives him two stones called ‘urim and thummim (interesting). What follows is a string of unfortunate events, as he is robbed, must work for a year (if I remember correctly) to save money to make it to Egypt, and once he gets there, he is faced with his biggest fears, but throughout the entire book, he is determined to set out to see what his purpose in life is, and keeps a positive attitude and perspective through it all.
For the next theme, Santiago learns that this life is more about doing more than we want to do. As I mentioned earlier, Santiago must work for an amount of time to save money because he is robbed. He works for a merchant who sells crystals. Throughout his time with the merchant, he has dreams about the store, and how to increase business. As he does this, he makes more and more money and only has to work for 6 months, and is even richer than before. He longs greatly to return to Spain and buy his flock back and return to a comfortable life. He consults the urim and thummim which Melchizedek gave him, and he realizes that this life is not about being comfortable; it is about doing what we came here to do. I can identify with this, and I think we all can, because there are probably a lot of things that we don’t really want to do, but we must in order to realize our potential. Santiago continues his journey.
The last theme I want to discuss from the book isn’t identifiable in one or two words, so I will explain it. Santiago travels and finds an alchemist who teaches him much about the world around them. The alchemist does not give Santiago all the answers, but let’s Santiago search within himself for answers. At the end of the book (to make a long story short), Santiago gets to the place where his dreams take place, and starts to dig, looking for treasure. Two men stop him, and beat him nearly to death, and he tells them of his dream. Realizing that he probably has no money, they leave him alone, but before they do, one of the men makes fun of Santiago telling him to be more practical and tells him of a dream that he had of a tree in Spain with treasure buried below. Santiago realizes that the tree the man speaks of is the tree near the place where he used to tend his sheep, and everything comes together for him at that moment. He realizes that he his treasure was where he started, but he didn’t know how to find it. He realizes that the whole trip was so he could discover who he was, find love, and recognize what is most important to him. He returns to Spain, gets his treasure, and then returns to the oasis in Egypt where he met his true love who waits for him. The theme to me is that the journey is what we need. We want to get somewhere so bad, but in this story, once he gets there, he realizes that it isn’t where he wants to be-but it was necessary because it helped him grow. I feel similar to Santiago, because sometimes I feel like I’ve been sent on a wild goose chase, only to discover I’ve always had what I needed, but unless I had taken that journey, I never would have realized it.
This is an amazing book, and it has been sold in almost every country of the world. There are many parallels to the gospel, and themes that we can adapt for our lives.


It is an easy and WONDERFUL read. Enjoy!

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

My Favorite Books...

Growing up, I would have to say that I didn’t read all that much. There was a stage of my life where I did read quite a bit, and it was when I was about 11-13 years of age. I cannot remember what the book was called, but I read a book about a girl coming out into the world when she was growing up, and learning about herself. It was a novel put out by Deseret Book. I even searched the storyline on google, and could not find the name of the book! The story was about a girl who was awkward, shy, and had many “friends” pulling her in different directions. Her first name was “Bo”, and her last name was “Vine”, and she was teased a lot for that. In the book, it is her telling the story about the way she felt when people teased her, how she wanted to respond when she was faced with peer pressure, and how she really responded.

I think the reason why I loved this book so much was because I could relate to the theme of the story, and I was able to understand why she felt the way she did. I also loved the fact that throughout the book, she learned who she was and what she wanted, and that she was really true to herself, and it ended great. What was really cute, is that at the end of the book when she has figured out who she is, and realized that she has great worth, she changes her name to “Dee”…get it? “Dee Vine”.

My favorite book now is a book written by Jeffrey R. Holland called “Created for Greater Things”. It is not so much a novel, as a book with the theme of our lives being led by the Creator of us and the World. It talks about the great worth that each of us have as individuals. One of my favorite quotes from the book: “Sometimes it seems especially difficult to submit to ‘great tribulation’ when we look around and see others seemingly much less obedient who triumph even as we weep. But time is measured only unto man, says Alma, and God has a very good memory.” This quote, and others from the book, hit very close to home in my life.

This book has been such a guide to help me remember what is important in life. It has really helped me to understand and keep in mind that the Lord is there, and He wants me to be happy, and that by living the way He would have me life is the way that I will be most happy.

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Sad Sad world....

Sometimes I wonder how we can be happy in a world where we hear about things like Josh Powell with his kids....so so sad.

I guess this is one reason why I am so grateful for the knowledge of the Gospel. The fact that we know that those kids are going to be ok is the only thing that gives me peace. I do not know the whole situation, but it's easy for me to dislike him for what he did to himself, his children, and his wife.

The Gospel is real, and I hope that the family of these poor boys knows of the truthfulness of it and the peace that the atonement of Christ can bring.

My favorite scripture for today:

11 And he shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind; and this that the word might be fulfilled which saith he will take upon him the pains and the sicknesses of his people.

12 And he will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands of death which bind his people; and he will take upon him their infirmities, that his bowels may be filled with mercy, according to the flesh, that he may know according to the flesh how to succor his people according to their infirmities.


-Alma 7:11-12


Christ is real, and He lives. He will be there for us in whatever we must face in this life.